Recently, I danced wearing the costume I bought in Tokyo. How do I look? At first, I hesitated to buy such a showy dress because I’m not good at flamenco yet. But I changed my mind. I should start from the style. This dress seems to be for a ballroom dance, but whatever is OK. A woman in the mirror is my teacher.
A series of articles about Kumafes, the festival of Japanese pop culture, will start from the next. Please look forward to it!
The last posting was about belly dance. I learn flamenco too. My flamenco teacher told me to go and see a dance party and gave me the ticket. However it was not a dance in disco or nightclub. It was a ballroom dance. I’d never seen it except for TV. I was just curious what it was like.
When I entered the party room, oh dear! there were many elderly people. People in their 60s and 70s? created a peculiar atmosphere. Why is a ballroom dance popular in elderly people in Japan? Is it the same situation in overseas? Pre-retiree men may be busy at work. How about young women? It must be tough to dance with an old man. Senior adults are vigorous. They looked very happy. They held up their heads and stepped well to the music. Women dressed in their flashy dresses. Men dressed in … How should I say…
At this point enter SOUNDCLOUD! Please look at the picture while listening.
The chairs were placed along the walls. While sitting quietly, I was asked to dance by various men. I politely refused each time. I was embarrassed. They must have looked quizzically at me. I should have worn jeans, not a long skirt. When I regretted it, a younger good-looking man came up and said, “Would you like to dance?” “I can’t dance. I’m just looking.” “Don’t worry. It’s all right.” He took my hand and led to the center of the hall. “First, move sideways. That’s it! You’re doing great. ” “Then, move back and forth. Now you’ve got it!” I was able to move naturally with him. He must be a teacher. After music ended, he brought me back to the seat. “Wow! he is like a prince! Then am I a princess?” What an old princess! But the image in my mind was like this. lol
If I can always dance with a handsome man like him, I will learn a ballroom dance. But I ‘d like to decline the dance with complete strangers. It would make me sick to be my hand and back held. ( In Japan, it’s not the custom to kiss and hug. There is no physical contact even in family) I think a ballroom dance itself is attractive though. I reaffirmed a solo dance is the best for me. After dancing, I went home right away. But I guess I should have asked his school name…
That night I recommended my husband learning a ballroom dance after retirement. He said “I don’t want to dance with an old woman.” No problem! You’ll be an old man by that time.